I need advice my boy friends ex just arrived with the local police to my house and demanded to see her kids. We have been told by DCFS that ...

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I need advice my boy friends ex just arrived with the local police to my house and demanded to see her kids. We have been told by DCFS that if my bf does not feel it is safe for his kids too not send them to her. Police said they cannot interfere because it is a dispute but i am concerned about the implications any suggestions. he has sole custody

Answer

You need to contact DCFS as soon as possible and let them know that she is demanding to see the kids. DCFS instructions trump a visitation and/or custody order and violating their instruction can be detrimental to your BF's sole custody. The police did the right thing provided that didn't make you turn over the kids to her. If some policeman tells you to do that insist on speaking to a supervisor and ask them to contact DCFS directly.